Develop your public speaking confidence by managing your inner voice
The overwhelming majority of individuals would really like to improve their public speaking confidence.
Am I right?
But mastering public speaking can sometimes be fearful.
Many of us are routinely overcome with fear when wehave to speak in public and that fear is cause by our own shortage of confidence.
And that confidence drainer is our own little voice within our heads.
You know the one. That inner voice inside your head which tells you off or stops you trying something new or reminds you to call someone or tells you to have some chocolate!
So what does your inner voice say when youare about to go onto the stage and in public speak?
Does it say This is gong to be a thrill i can’t wait to start or does it say You cannot do this you are going to look so foolish.
Which one? Honestly?
How frequently has your inner voice stopped you trying something new?
How often do you let your inner voice talk you out of doing something?
Now imagine if your inner voice, which is stopping you moving forward, was a real person with a real voice. So you are just about to give a show to an audience made of a hundred senior staff and your best mate says, you are going to mess this one up. You are going to forget your words, you are going to be dumb.
Someone will ask a question and you will not know the answer . Don’t do it, it is not worth the suffering or discomfort.
How’s that make you feel? Your best mate has just ridiculed you. Tell me, they wouldn’t be your best mate for long, if they really did that.
That’s precisely what you are allowing your own inner voice to do to you every single day.
Why?
You are in control. In fact, just hear your inner voice for the next hour and see how many negatives things it is informing you. Make a note of them jot them down.
You’ll be dazzled how often your inner voice is enlightening you negative things.
You must stop the negative comments now.
You must turn them around and make your inner voice talk to you in a positive way.
The next time you are about to go on stage, let your voice say to you :
The audience is going to love you. Youare going to be funny, charming, engaging. You are going to wow the audience with your knowledge.
By controlling your inner voice and making it positive, it can only improve your public speaking confidence.
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